10 Poison In Ourselves We Realize That Sometimes Not
Poison First: Evade
Symptoms: Running away from reality, ignoring responsibilities, but by running away from reality, we will only get a false happiness that lasts a moment.
Antibody: Reality
How to: Stop deceiving yourself. Do not be too serious in dealing with problems due to mental hospitals are filled with patients who always followed the sadness and feel environment becomes the source of frustration. So, finish up any problems completely and yakinilah best that everything should always be pursued vigorously.
The second poison: Fear
Symptoms: Not sure myself, tense, anxious, among others, could be due to financial difficulties, marital conflict, sexual problems, etc..
Antibody: Courage
How to: Avoid a person who's dependent on anxiety. Remember, 99 percent of the things we worry about never happen. Courage is the most powerful self defense. Use of intellectual analysis and find solutions to problems through the right mental attitude. Courage is reedukasi process. So, do not hesitate to seek help from experts, such as psychiatrists or psychologists.
The third poison: selfishly
Symptoms: Materialistic, aggressive, prefer to ask than to give.
Antibody: Be social
How to: Do not exploit friends. Happiness would be obtained if we can help others. Keep in mind, people who do not expect anything from others is a person who never felt disappointed.
Poison fourth: Stagnation
Symptoms: Stop single-phase, make ourselves feel bored, bored, and unhappy.
Antibody: Ambition
How to: Continue to develop, meaning that we continue in our future ambitions. We do find happiness in a passion when we achieve these ambitions.
Poison fifth: low self-Pain
Symptoms: Loss of self confidence and self-confidence and feel they have no ability to compete.
Antibody: self Confidence
Methods: A person is not going to win if before the war, convinced he would lose. If we believe in our abilities, in fact we've got half of the targets that we want to achieve. So, success begins when we believe that we are able to achieve it.
Poison sixth: narcissistic
Symptoms: superiority complex, too arrogant, false pride.
Antibody: Humility
Methods: People who arrogant will easily lose a friend, because without the presence of friends, we will not be happy. Avoid knowingly. With humility, we will naturally want to hear other people so that 50 per cent chance of success we achieve.
Poison seventh: self pity
Symptoms: Habits attract attention, the dominant mood, depressed, feel like a person Rough in the world.
Antibody: Sublimation
How to: Do not make yourself into a neurotic, fixated on yourself. Forget issues to behave themselves and avoid sentimental and obsessed of dependence to others ..
Poison eighth: Attitudes lazing
Symptoms: Apathy, saturated continued, dreamily, and spending time with unproductive way, feel lonely.
Antibody: Work
How to: Make us to always follow the work schedule we have planned earlier by way of active work. Avoid the tendency to make our existence becomes meaningless and complain incessantly.
Poison ninth: intolerant attitude
Symptoms: Thoughts petty, petty racial hatred, arrogance, antagonism toward a particular religion, religious prejudice.
Antibody: Control yourself
How to: Calm our emotions through the art of self control. Observe them intellectually. Increase our tolerance levels. Remember that the world was created and is created by the diversity of cultures and religions.
Poison tenth: Hatred
Symptoms: The desire of revenge, cruel, pitiless.
Antibody: Love
How To: Eliminate hatred. Learning to forgive and forget. Hatred is one of the negative emotions that form the basis of a sense of unhappiness. People who have hatred usually also hated herself for hating others. The only thing that can eliminate the feeling of hate is love. Love is the ultimate power that can be owned by each person.
